Now to take it to the visual – your energy naturally expands outward with ease and flow. YOU ALREADY ARE RADIANT… under all that bullsh*t you are spewing at yourself.
To be more comfortable and hold you smaller and “safer”, your mind gets involved – usually this starts at a young age – and wastes a ton of your energy by focusing and repeating non-sense like in the diagram on the right below. These statements and the zillion customized variations you are creating, burn off that radiance.
It requires energy to stay small. Lots of it.
And then, it becomes a habit.
In order to be bigger, you simply stop the effort to keep yourself small and allow your goodness to expand out, attract rad opportunities, cool people, share ideas, share delight, etc. – like the drawing on the left. You simply let it be and acknowledge how awesome you are rather than trying to stop it.
It may require support to change your habit and some new tools to deal with your discomfort of all that goodness.
And then you have all that energy back to do more creative, fun stuff!
The crazy thing is that those who choose to be their radiant selves are rare. Are you one of us?