What if grief isn’t the pain of loss

Yesterday, I got to hold a newborn. Mazzie, our precocious 3 year-old next door, has a beautiful baby sister. Today, it is my mom’s birthday. It has been over two years since her death. I am feeling waves of emotion … and then I thought … What if grief isn’t the pain...

Is your mind is the referee, martyr, and the bully of you?

From Layer 8 of The Change Militia content: We all have been taught to go through life thinking. It has become the social norm. What we explore in The Change Militia is what it feels like to go through life feeling, to explore your world and relationships from an...

What if stress didn’t exist until you created it?

If you believe that stress exists, you probably do things to relieve stress: exercise, medication, meditation, alcohol, food, sex, or therapy. So, in effect, stress is draining your energy and then you are exerting more energy trying to relieve it, creating a double...

Why am I talking about this? A simple experiment to gain back energy

When I started asking this question, which eventually became one of The Curiosity Experiment cards, I was starting to notice that talking was one of the ways I burn off my extra energy aka my potential. Through numerous conversations with my wise other half, Jeff, I...

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